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It is true that cum eating and cock sucking are closely linked but both activities are fully capable of being independent of each other. Girls that spit instead of swallow are comfortable with cock sucking but do not eat cum, therefore it makes sense that you can eat cum without sucking, or indeed involving the cock as anything other than a (willing and respected) cum dispenser. Men who wish to drink another man's cum but are uncomfortable with another man in a sexual setting may find it easier to involve a female partner or find a way to dispense the cum into a container so that it can be eaten alone.
Cum eating domination is a desire for many cum eaters and in a good BDSM setting your boundaries should be made known and respected. The act of humiliation that is the focus of these settings is likely to be explored which is why it is especially important to make any boundaries clear. It is true that cum drinking can escalate to cock sucking relatively quickly, however a good Mistress will know when to stop. Cock sucking is seen by some as the next level of humiliation for cum drinking slaves and so it can be a natural progression in many cases. It is often the act of being 'made' to do it by a Mistress that makes it so appealing rather than the act itself. It is entirely possible for men who would not enjoy sucking cock in a standard sexual encounter who come to enjoy the sensations of being 'coerced' to do it for or by their Mistress.
The connotations that cock sucking is an act only indulged in by straight women and gay men can lead to a lot of confusion in cum drinkers. It is not often stated that straight men can in fact suck cock without compromising their sexuality. Whether a man is straight, gay or bisexual is largely dependent on how he identifies himself and even more so on who he is attracted to. If you enjoy sucking cock but are not attracted to men in general, it is almost certain that you are not gay. It is a common practice for men to doubt their sexuality when engaging in acts that are not widely socially accepted, however to thrive in their fantasies, men should learn to be comfortable with who they are and what they like.