Is eating your own cum the first step to sucking cock?

Eating your own cum is a delightful act in itself but some men worry or indeed revel in the idea that eating cum is the first step towards sucking cock. Whether you fear or delight in this idea, it is not necessarily true. While it can pave the way towards sucking cock for those too nervous to try it outright, it will not lead to something you don't enjoy if you respect your own boundaries.

Eating your own cum in particular can naturally be the first step towards learning to suck your own cock for those that wish to achieve it. Even if it is your desire to suck your own cock, this does not necessarily mean that it will lead you to sucking someone else's. Sucking your own cock is very different from being attracted to another man's junk and some men may find that they like it while others do not.

Is it About the Cum or the Cock?

For men who wish to suck another man's cock but find they have reservations, eating cum can be a non intrusive way to become comfortable with another man in a sexual setting. It is possible to start slow and eat the cum independently of the other man, eventually leading up to ejaculation straight into the mouth. This is then just a tongue's length away from sucking cock.

For those that fear their cum eating fetish may lead to cock sucking, it is important to think about why it is such a concern. Some men may come to realize that they do enjoy cock and were simply uncomfortable with their sexuality. Other men may know it is something they are not interested in and believe that sucking cock is inevitable once you start drinking cum. The fact of the matter is that every individual is entitled to his or her fetishes, fantasies and boundaries. Once you are aware of your boundaries you should make any current or potential partners aware of them so that they can be respected. You should not indulge in activities that you are not comfortable with, unless you are comfortable with pushing your boundaries to find your limits.

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Cum Eating Boundaries

It is true that cum eating and cock sucking are closely linked but both activities are fully capable of being independent of each other. Girls that spit instead of swallow are comfortable with cock sucking but do not eat cum, therefore it makes sense that you can eat cum without sucking, or indeed involving the cock as anything other than a (willing and respected) cum dispenser. Men who wish to drink another man's cum but are uncomfortable with another man in a sexual setting may find it easier to involve a female partner or find a way to dispense the cum into a container so that it can be eaten alone.

Cum eating domination is a desire for many cum eaters and in a good BDSM setting your boundaries should be made known and respected. The act of humiliation that is the focus of these settings is likely to be explored which is why it is especially important to make any boundaries clear. It is true that cum drinking can escalate to cock sucking relatively quickly, however a good Mistress will know when to stop. Cock sucking is seen by some as the next level of humiliation for cum drinking slaves and so it can be a natural progression in many cases. It is often the act of being 'made' to do it by a Mistress that makes it so appealing rather than the act itself. It is entirely possible for men who would not enjoy sucking cock in a standard sexual encounter who come to enjoy the sensations of being 'coerced' to do it for or by their Mistress.

The connotations that cock sucking is an act only indulged in by straight women and gay men can lead to a lot of confusion in cum drinkers. It is not often stated that straight men can in fact suck cock without compromising their sexuality. Whether a man is straight, gay or bisexual is largely dependent on how he identifies himself and even more so on who he is attracted to. If you enjoy sucking cock but are not attracted to men in general, it is almost certain that you are not gay. It is a common practice for men to doubt their sexuality when engaging in acts that are not widely socially accepted, however to thrive in their fantasies, men should learn to be comfortable with who they are and what they like.

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