Do You Lose the Urge to Eat Your Cum After Orgasm?

Do you lose the urge to eat your cum after orgasm? Your cock is hard and you’re stroking yourself. The tension is building. It feels so very good, part of you wants the feeling to go on and on, and part of you wants to cum. You want more than just to cum, you want to lick the cum from your fingers and to taste your ejaculate.

The thought of it makes you stroke harder, your fingers sliding over your head, and then long, hard, gripping strokes bring you to an orgasm, shooting liquid all over your belly and chest in wild pulses. All of a sudden, your previous thought of eating your cum turns you off.  It actually disgusts you. Why the sudden change of mind? Why is it so difficult for you to eat your cum after orgasm?

Sexual Arousal and Cum Eating

When two consenting partners enjoy sex and when there is a mutual trust between partners, the mind is allowed to wander. There is no need to keep secrets, no reason to hide fantasies.  The rush and feelings take over and the mind control weakens. Masturbation is much like letting your mind slip into a dream. Good sex with a partner can do the same thing. Inhibitions are gone.

As the arousal builds, more and more fantasies come to light. We start thinking of things that turn us on that we won’t even admit to ourselves. Many people do many things in the throes of passion they would never consider doing otherwise. Cum eating is just one of those fantasies.

For most people, with tightly held, hidden fantasies, the minute they reach orgasm the walls go back up around those thoughts, hiding them and keeping them safe. It can take a lot of work to finally let go and live out some fantasies. Cum eating can take the most time to realize.  Once you cum, you no longer want to taste it.  But you can be successful in eating cum after orgasm.

Cum Eating

The idea of tasting your cum may never occur to you until you are very highly aroused and anticipating an orgasm. You want to cum so badly, you can taste it. You want to eat your cum. The thought of tasting it drives you closer and closer to that orgasm. Cum should never be just washed away, it should be enjoyed.

Cum is the very seed of life–it is power, and it is yours. Since the beginning of mankind there has been a tendency, a mostly deep and hidden tendency, to believe we are what we eat. If we eat beef, we will be strong like a bull. If we eat cum we will be virile, manly, masterful, and prolific. Of course, today’s society no longer sees things that way.

It isn’t until we are able to let go of the puritanical veils of prudishness that we feel these urges. They may only be feelings, not even real thoughts. This most often happens during sex.

Learning to Just Let Go

There needs to be a very deep trust between two people to just let go. There can be no fear that the other will find them a sexual deviant. Both partners need to be able to relax and not only talk about it, but experience it. Unfortunately, in America today, too many things are looked upon as taboo. People are afraid to be sexually uninhibited with their partner.

This leads to more fantasizing and masturbation. Even then it can take some time for a person to let go and be sexually free. Enjoy the feelings and thoughts of eating your cum. If you want to enjoy the feelings longer, slow down and take your time. Explore your thoughts and let them take you where they want to go. You want to taste your own cum? Start by letting your fingers become coated with precum, and then lick them clean. Don’t be surprised if it excites you and makes you cum. Let your body guide you.

Letting Go and Not Thinking Helps Keep that Urge to Eat Your Cum After Orgasm

With time, you will realize that letting go, letting your mind think what it wants, will bring greater satisfaction. Once you are able to let go with yourself, it is time to start letting go with your partner. Take it slow and easy.  Don’t start something new, or considered taboo, right away.

Try to make the situation hot and wild. The arousal stage for both of you will soon be underway. Then make your move. Perhaps talk about it while beginning foreplay. Talking dirty is quite arousing during sex. Tell your partner you want to shoot your cum on them and lick it off. Ask them if they want to taste it, too. You may be surprised at their answer.

Exploring, enjoying, and gratifying each other completely can only forge a stronger relationship. Before you can begin to know what it is you want, you need to explore with yourself and be comfortable with yourself sexually. Lower those walls and learn just how great sex can be without any hang-ups. As long as you are not hurting anyone, why not enjoy it?